I am Sad because you are Happy!!

Happiness the most simplest, yet complicated thing in this world!  People often do things which make them happy. But if we ask a person “Are you really happy”, 8 out of 10 will end up saying that they are not truly happy.  So what is causing people on not being truly happy even when they are doing things which they like? It may be because we compare our happiness with others.  For instance, you and your colleague started a career at the same time.  On today’s date you both are doing well but your colleague is a step ahead from you (or vice versa) so even though you are happy on your own but a thought of your colleague doing better may make you upset. 

In today’s world, people are not sad because of their sorrows, instead they are sad by seeing other people happy. You may see many examples nearby you. In your office (If you are working), you will find people who may get saddened because you are doing well. Sometimes, no matter how beautiful our long awaiting vacation would have been but if we see anyone’s photo of a foreign tour we may get bit of jealous inside.

There are times when everything seems against you and you see all doors closed for you. Whenever it happens, remember God has always kept one door open for you. The reason we are not able to look at that door is because we always look at closed doors. God has given equal opportunity to everyone. Don’t get upset if you are fat, skinny.  If something is making you sad just work on it and remove that sadness. Do what you love and love what you do!  In life we sometimes are sacred of taking that one chance. Try to take that chance; if you will not succeed then you will get an experience. 

If you will compare your happiness with others then you will not be able to happy. Happiness is in cherishing small things in life and making moments memorable. No matter how sad you are, if you re-call any happiest moment of life; you will get a smile on your face at that very moment.  If you will find the reason to be happy then you may not end up on being happy. The simplest way to be happy is always be happy.  Listen to your heart and follow the right path. Happiness will be all yours!!